The fact of the matter is that if it causes offence then it is unacceptable.
Society has thankfully moved on and what people of a certain generation thought was acceptable now is not. All societies evolve and are better for it. Whether you think it is "PC" or people are being over sensitive trust me, your words DO cause offence!
Would you make fun of people with physical disabilities?
Would you joke about the Holocaust?
Would you go up to someone in the street and poke fun of them to their face?
No of course you wouldn't but where do you draw the line? Someone from Ireland has arleady been on here quite rightly explaining how Irish jokes are offensive, yet 2 other members at least have thought it funny to make fun of the Welsh! Outmoded racial stereotypes are exactly that: out moded.
Also why is it thought to be acceptable from the barrier of a keyboard?
Also why do folks think its acceptable to hide behind their age?
It is wrong at any age and we are all able to adapt our behaviours.
Whatever language people from BAME backgrounds or LGBTQ+ or even regional backgrounds for example, choose to use is totally up to them and they "own" those words. If you are not of the same background you do not have permission to use those wrds expecially is in almost every case the words are used to poke fun. This is bullying pure and simple and causes hurt whether you think so or not.
I support Phil in starting this thread as we should not have to come on to a site like this and feel offence. There are other forums where the rules are more lax on these kind of things!
Graham